To have a successful marriage, you need to find out what are the forces controlling and directing your spouse’s behavior in your marriage.

These forces, that I have called the Drivers, are:

 

Gregarious

The drive or the need for connection.

Unique

The drive or the need for recognition.

Diversifier

The drive or the need for frequent changes.

Cautious

The drive or the need for safety and security.

They represent the “needs” and “wants” that we all have living in our subconscious mind. Most people are not aware of the existence of those Drivers, however they are deeply rooted at a subconscious level and from there, they will control and direct your spouse’s life in general, and in particular his or her way of relating to you in your marriage.

Take the Driver’s Test…